Cold Calling: The Phone is Your Friend

Jun 18, 2010 by

Cold Calling: The Phone is Your Friend

Email. Facebook. Text messages. IMing. They’re all ways that one can avoid picking up the phone and talking to a real person. I once hated making phone calls. I was afraid I’d sound stupid and make a fool of myself. (Sometimes I did, too!) But the truth is, the phone is still one of the best ways to make a connection.Many of us are aware that social media and technology have stepped in front of actual one on one conversations. Yes, modern technology allows us to build new relationships through use of social media, email, and texting. Yes, it opens doors and brings us new opportunities. And yes, it’s a great way to build a business. However, it’s still second rate in my mind.

Tapping out quick messages on our keyboard or cell phone typepad is easy. I do it daily and I do it often. I many times receive replies immediately, yet, there are still those prospective clients who cannot be reached in this way. Would you text message the CEO of a company to introduce yourself and try to set up a meeting? I wouldn’t. I might email them, but CEOs and presidents of a company don’t exactly have time to read every introduction email you send, let alone reply to all of them.

That’s when it’s time to pick up the phone. It might be a bit scary the first time, and it surely was for me. Calling up a total stranger knowing that they may say no or hang up on you is enough for many people to give up before they even get started. That’s why it’s good to know what you’re going to say in advance.

Here are some suggestions:

  • Know who you’re calling. Know their name and what position they hold at their company. If can’t pronounce their name, figure it out in advance if at all possible.
  • Can they use your services? In my line of work, I often times check to see if a prospective client has a website and an online presence. If they already do, I check around to see who is managing their marketing and find out if there’s potential for me to compete for their business.
  • Think about your approach carefully before making the call. “Hi, I’m Mandee, and I’d like to sell you [insert product or service here].” Uh, no. The goal is not to close the sale on the first call, it’s to introduce yourself and find out if they have any needs you can assist with. If the answer is maybe or yes, then set up a face to face meeting if possible.
  • Get the right person on the phone. You don’t want to talk to the receptionist if she’s not the one who makes purchases or does the hiring within the company. Talk to the decision maker. If you don’t know who that is, ask, then do everything in your power to reach that particular person. Don’t waste your time on people who don’t have the power to spend the company’s money.
  • Ditch the scripts. This isn’t to say that you shouldn’t practice or take notes about what you’re going to say in advance. I usually do, in fact. But whatever you do, just don’t sound like you’re reading off a piece of paper! I tend to hang up on people that sound like a automated recording because they always have a comeback to my objections and won’t take no for an answer. It’s just downright annoying.

After learning the above tips for myself, I have a confession to make. Once I became comfortable with cold calling prospective clients, I actually found it to be quite fun! I think that the only reason it seems scary to most people is because we pretend like it’s a huge ordeal to be rejected. So what if somebody says no? I bet if you think for just a moment, you could come up with a list of times that you’ve been turned down, rejected or ignored. If it happens over the phone, just move past it and dial the next number.

People are going to say no more than you’d like, but with a little determination, you might just land that amazing client that everyone’s been after. (Watch a clip from the Pursuit of Happyness below to see what I’m talking about!)

Photo Credit: CELAL TEBER

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  • http://PaulKlaszus.com/ Paul Klaszus

    aahhhh.. what a refreshing post.
    All the 'autoresponder this, capture page that, autotweet your blog' content was starting to sound like “you don't even have to talk to them!!!”

    yikes.. where's the relationship marketing?… and here it is – over at Mandee's blog.

    you've just hit the list of 'must reads' as well, my friend!

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    Mandee Widrick Reply:

    Well a big thanks to you for your kind words, Paul. It's so easy to get caught up in modern media and technology, and as a result forget that relationships are what really matter. Sometimes I still catch myself trying to avoid a phone call because I'm “not in the mood” or maybe because I'm just being plain lazy about it!

    I was in a “no phone” slump just this week and pulled myself out of it today. I had a blast booking appointments and making sales calls. Sometimes I forget that people are fun to talk to!

    Mandee

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  • Ldobson

    Wow Mandee how true . . . With all this technology we are loosing the ability to really create relationships one on one. Great insight with some very good content.

    Have a beautiful day!

    Lloyd Dobson :)

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    Mandee Widrick Reply:

    Thanks Lloyd! Society questions why teenagers lack the ability to communicate these days. And we wonder why? Because the modern world is feeding them so much crap (movies, texting, iPods, computers, video games, etc) and they fail to learn how to communicate with REAL people. It's a skill that we all need and don't want to lose sight of.

    Thanks for stopping by!

    Mandee

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  • http://ChristineCaseyab.com/blog Christine Casey

    Hi Mandee,

    You make cold calling sound fun in your post! I like that ;-) Just about everything you stated is how I feel or have felt & you know what, as soon as I get past my initial apprehension, basically get on a roll, I feel energized and ready to go to the next caller. Another point you mention that I am totally in agreement with is how it may be easier to text or IM or email, yet all those things slow take away the interpersonal communication that I feel we, as humans, need to have. Example, my teenage son would rather IM or text a friend than go basically next door to actually see them & have a conversation face-to-face. (Maybe that's just a GenY thing?) LOL! Thanks for sharing ~ I really enjoyed :-) Christine

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  • http://mlmforsuccess.wordpress.com/ Ben Lehnert

    What??? You’re doing business in REAL life??? I mean, with REAL people? That’s just…revolutionary! OK, just kidding of course! I love what you wrote! And your comment to Paul reminded me to watch one video of Eric Worre again: http://networkmarketingpro.com/2010/05/26/breaking-out-of-a-network-marketing-slump-nmpro-313/
    Have a great, productive day!

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  • http://www.chuckbartok.com Chuck Bartok

    Hooray for Mandee!

    We have positive Proof that the Telephone is truly the HUB around which the other forms of Communication reside for the successful Sales organization.
    (only surpassed by Face-to-Face contact).
    PEOPLE buy from PEOPLE
    And the TELEPHONE offers a better opportunity for another to learn more about YOU
    I offer a one-on-one telephone coaching session that has helped many to capitalize on the use of this POWERFUL tool

    Probably we could put together a Webinar for select, serious Marketers.
    Great Blog Post, Mandee

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  • http://www.cedreynolds.com/ CedReynolds

    Right on. Thanks for sharing. The phone is not our enemy, it's our friend. As much as technology increases, the better opportunities I have been having using the phone. I just continue to stay with what has brought me success mixed with the new fangled stuff and voila…

    BTW, found this re-posted by my good friend Chuck Bartok on Facebook. Thanks Chuck for turning me on to Mandee. Thanks Mandee for the post.

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    Mandee Widrick Reply:

    So glad you found me, Ced! Are you joining Chuck's conference call to discuss cold calling tips this Wednesday? http://www.facebook.com/event.php?eid=137167999…

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  • Jeremiah W.

    Someone payed me to raise sponsors for a film contest a while ago, so I got really used to cold calling. At first I would be nervous before each call, but I eventually got over it. The worst they can do is curse you out, yell, say no, or hang up. The best part is that I was able to talk to a guy (who ended up being a sponsor) who had been the reason I took up motion graphics via his training tutorials, and was someone I looked up to in that area.

    Earlier this year I did a ton of cold calling to again try to raise money for a big event I was hoping to film. It was really fun, as I was talking to “important” city officials and those in the media.

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  • http://www.tgreenrn.com Lesly

    Mandee… we should never forget the basics!! I don't like doing “cold” calls, but I have a different outlook now – if I am just myself and don't take hang-ups personally, I'm okay. The othet thing is those darn scripts! Yech… people can smell them a mile away.. Thanks for a wonderful post! As Paul says – refreshing… :-)

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    Mandee Widrick Reply:

    You're very right, Lesly. I had to get beyond taking rejection as a personal offense. Once I did that, things went great for me! We're having a conference call this Wednesday and inviting everyone with tips or questions about cold calling to join in: http://www.facebook.com/event.php?eid=137167999… Would love to have you!

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  • http://prosperyourmind.blog.com Michael Berry

    I love it when you say ditch the scripts. You want to be as authentic as possible it's not as important what you say but how you say it.

    Michael

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  • http://www.nicolerushin.com Nicole Rushin

    I still hate to talk on the phone. I would rather talk to someone at the store or at a networking meeting or the guy delivering bottled water to my house. But I do get your point that we need to talk to people at some point rather than just sending messages. It just seems so abrupt to call someone. It still seems yicky to me, but thanks for sharing. I am with you on the relationship building end of it.

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